Memories from The Past
Today is October 23, 2004 and had today “reserved” as a workday for
our annual upcoming Halloween party, however I decided to replace a missing
curved glass from a 1890 – 1920 circa Quartered Oak Serpentine
China Cabinet. The china cabinet has special meaning to my bride
and I since my Grandma “Della” Coley left it to us in 1974 upon her death.
A few years later one of my bride’s nephews ran into the right hand curved
glass shattering it and a piece of flexible clear plastic was installed as a
temporary fix which lasted a decade or more.
Finally, after years, decades, etc. of missing the right hand curved glass
and a gently nudging along from my bride, I found a supplier in Texas
specializing in stock and custom made curved glass to specifications and ran
the moths from my wallet and ordered the glass! A special one-time
mold had to be fabricated to bend the curved glass to specification and
after anxiously waiting about two months the glass finally arrived.
The entire contents of the cabinet along with the shelving were removed and
it was touch and go to get the curved glass installed. The glass originally
was held in place by molding and secured by small wire nails but I elected
to hot glue the molding back instead of hammering the nails on the expert
advice of Robert Hough who owns
Carolina Antiques and Restoration
located at 4399 Main Street, Ellerbe, N.C. 28338 Telephone:
910-652-2098 who specializes in the
restoration of antiques. Over the years the cabinet has shifted out of
parallel a bit since the curved side supports were steam bent instead of
laminated and it was difficult to get the glass back into the tight fitting
opening but I was successful. I just hope there is not too much
pressure on the fit! Note: About five years have passed and the
glass is still fine.
I am inserting a few pixs from start to finish on this project and while I
was getting the glass in place my bride and our youngest daughter Lisa
Dianne Netting were cleaning the silver, crystal, china and all the do dads
from different parts of the World to have them presentable again. I
know my Grandma Coley would be very proud to see the things that she had
collected over the years looking so pretty again. The top shelf in the
cabinet was reserved for some of the crystal that I have given my bride
“Tweet” along with some items that our daughters have given her.





The right curved glass is installed which has the manufacturer’s ID on the
glass. My bride cleaned all the curved glass side panels and front
serpentine curved door glass as well as the rear mirror. There were four
flat shelving units that were cleaned also.

The flat glass-shelving units ready for a serious application of Windex!
This is some of the goodies that different ones gave Grandma Coley over the
years for her china cabinet.

Inserted are some pixs showing the hand carving….the carving is in relief
and the back ground has a stippled finish all done with hand tools.

It should be noted that wood carving machines (pantographs) were available
when this item was manufactured that did the rough routing (carving) which
allowed such items to be mass produced and the fine details of the carving
was finished by hand using carving tools. This was at a time when
labor was very cheap in comparison to today’s standards! The
particular carving shown above has a name but don’t ask me what it is. I
will research it if anyone is interested. Note: According
to Chuck Erikson of Grass Valley, CA, "The carving is what's called
"Acanthus Leaf " (in a "scrolled" motif), originating in classical
Greece and used as a basis for fine carving ever since".
The side panels have matching pattern carving only on the top. The
only carving on the bottom are the two front feet. I have seen some on
the Internet with different carving patterns and in different locations but
I guarantee you this one is ahead of most that are fore sale although not
the most ornate.

Grandma Coley’s Serpentine China Cabinet looks as good as new again and it I
know most of you didn’t know her unless you were family or friend but I am
going to tell you a little about her and share some pixs and memories of
her.

This is one of the earliest pictures that I have of my Grandma Coley whose
maiden name was Mary Francis Trexler and was born here in Wadesboro, N.C.
February 9, 1892. The young chap with her is Joe Coley, her first son.
He died in a car wreck near the old West Knitting Mill which is now part of
the South Piedmont Community College in Wadesboro, NC.

I have the original picture and carved framing of the above pix in our
dining room of which I am very proud. We had it restored years ago and
at the time of Grandma Coley’s death, it seems that no one wanted the old
picture but I am thankful that we obtained it.
My Grandma Coley “conned” my mother Ann Lee Porter into
letting me stay with her when I was in the first grade in school and she
raised me like her own son. Mom and Pop lived next door so I guess it
seemed plausible to my Mom at the time. My bride tells me every once
in a while how my Grandma Coley “spoiled” me since I never picked up any
clothes, washed any clothes or did too much in the way of chores around the
house. I just hunted, fished and trapped growing up without any
responsibility of which my bride’s work was cut out for her to get me
trained. I think she will freely admit it did her take a long time but
I finally did come around. Go ahead and grin if you must!
Grandma’s old home place did not have central heat or air and getting up on
those cold winter mornings with hardwood flooring; one did not linger around
too long before getting dressed. There were two Seigler brand kerosene
heaters in the home and until around 1960 or so there was a full sized wood
burning cook stove in the kitchen along side a more modern gas range.
Grandma Coley made some “beautimous” tasting lard buttermilk
biscuits with that cast iron wood cook stove and you better believe I did
eat my share of them.
Fond memories still linger of the many conversations we had in the front
living room with each of us sitting beside the oil heater in our own wooden
rocking chair with Grandma telling me about how things were back when the
lifestyle was much different. I know many people that said they would
like to go back when things were much simpler but Grandma Coley had no such
desire because life for her growing up was very difficult. As a young
girl, she had to help support her invalid Dad and look after the family, as
her mother was deceased. She worked as a silk spinner at the ole Silk
Mill on Sikes Avenue where now is located the Oak Hill apartments. The
old silk mill was still standing in the early 1960’s and many times we would
sneak into the mill climbing up to the third story looking out across the
countryside. She related to me how she worked as a child at the silk
mill until the
Child Labor Law
was locally enforced and had to stay out of work until a few years
later when she was old enough by law to work again. She said she wore
shoes until the soles would fall off and would fasten the soles of the shoes
in place with cord or wire. The supervisors at the Silk Mill showed no
mercy to the child workers and they were expected to work like adults.
It was during our many chats that moral and Christian values and issues
would always surface of which I have not forgotten them. I know I have
fallen short many, many times but those values are still rooted and grounded
as those type of life lessons are long term in effect!
Many years after Grandma Coley’s death, it was revealed to me in a
dream
that I had a reel-to-reel tape recording of her singing, crying and laughing
as she was trying to teach me a few old songs to learn on my Dobro guitar.
It was on that tape one could hear, feel and understand her love and
commitment to Jesus Christ and the subtle underlying urgency for all to
accept Jesus Christ as their personal savior as evidenced in her songs and
testimony. Eighteen minutes of the tape survived as it was taped over
long before I ever remembered making that tape. That is a whole story
and sermon in it’s self!
I will insert some of my favorite pixs taken in the middle to late 1960’s.



The below pix of my "bride" Joyce with Grandma Coley taken a few weeks
before our first child was born on July 5, 1968.


Pictures were taken in Grandma’s Rose Garden. Not knowing much about
horticulture, I can’t tell you any of the names of the various types of
roses that she grew and tenderly looked after. I remember digging many
holes with a shovel and “maddock”
helping plant and relocating the rose bushes. Seems like she had a
favorite rose bush nicknamed Mr. Coley but I cannot remember the exact
significant details as to how it got that name and will do a little research
to ascertain additional information.
The old home place is still there and occupied today and in my mind’s eye
all those wonderful memories from the past still linger pretty much in
focus!
It seems like only yesterday that those pixs were taken but time is not
stopping for no one. My last words to Grandma Coley at the hospital
were, “I’ll see you in the morning” and she replied, “I
hope so Son”! It will have to be the Resurrection
morning
because she died in her sleep! Written by William McKnight Porter aka
Mickey Porter 10-23-04.